tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6846513136546215048.post8240123648406822273..comments2009-01-26T10:02:06.964-05:00Comments on So Many Labels: Would there be, could there beMimihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11856445296359971172noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6846513136546215048.post-49384365509291864832008-08-21T17:52:00.000-04:002008-08-21T17:52:00.000-04:00You're lucky Joy! My husband's 1st wife left him ...You're lucky Joy! My husband's 1st wife left him and even though she said that it wasn't for someone else she is still with the same guy. He can't get past that and her abandoning their children. Well, that and her <I>ugly,</I> <B>selfish</B> attitude! <BR/><BR/>I did get along with my older children's father in the early years and it was a lot better for all of us then. It was just one of Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11856445296359971172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6846513136546215048.post-63969182481210863902008-08-21T14:50:00.000-04:002008-08-21T14:50:00.000-04:00When I first got married, I was 21 and my husband ...When I first got married, I was 21 and my husband was 37. He had been married for 16 years and HATED his ex wife. I found that when he lost the hate of her, I liked her more. I found with hate, came a certain form of love and once that was gone, we were a lot better off. Hate and love are both a very strong emotions so I felt more secure when the hate stopped. Plus he had two kids with her Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com